Being 18 is a interesting time in a persons life. You just turned adult and suddenly you have responsibilities you have to take care of. There is no longer a father or mother that says you to do things or take care of your things. Also decisions that you have to make, where do i want to study, where do i want to live, should i get work and so on.
Now i have had some tough choices i have had to make, i had to choose where do i want to do my military, what do i want to focus on? people, myself, s.o, sports or maybe just go with the flow and do everything. Now in the near future I will be forced to decided the biggest question in my life, where am I´m going to study?. It feels sometimes that the decision you make is going to determine your whole life and at least feel sometimes extremely afraid of deciding what to do. I feel that i´m going to choose the wrong option and regret it forever. But i always noticed, sometimes if you think too much on the choice you are about to make, it will only confuse you more. Almost always in the end i have made the choice on gut feeling, or even sometimes let life decide for me, trust in what God brings to my path. Almost always in the end i have smiled on the events and paths i have gone, rarely i have regretted my decisions. But if you do regret, then think about the good things it has brought you, and the experiences and the things you have learned from it. If you fall down 5 times, you stand up 6 times. (Is it scary to think that once your mother and father put you down and never picked you up again?). Always smile, even when you know you did a stupid choice as everything has its reasons.
To plan something is even harder and i hate it even more. Even tough more often that not it is me that plan what happens. I hate to be the one who decides what to do and when, i always have the feeling of that people do not like my plans and just go with it because they have nothing better to do. And mostly everything someone plans i almost always enjoy, so i prefer if someone else decides instead of me. But if i do, i always try plan everything to perfection so no one is disappointing.
But if I´m honest more often than not, people will enjoy it if you do, people are not that much different and if they are your friends you should have same kind of interests. And if you go trough the trouble of doing plans and your friends do not help, then they should be happy!
So do not worry (i worry myself) if you plan something its more often than not quite good! Just make sure you ask for opinions and if you do plans with your friends, let them decide to. Do not be afraid to decide!
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